Live like you were dying

  My grandmother is 85 and when there is a funeral for people in her generation there is sadness, of course, but there are also phrases like, “He’s had a good run” or “he has lived a full life”. However, now in my 40’s I have found myself at more and more farewells where that just isn’t the case. A life that... Continue Reading →

Open Letter from Grace Tame

Grace Tame today posted this open letter to Twitter. It is a must-read lesson in the way trauma presents itself for those who have lucky enough to have never had any. There is nothing I could say that sums it up any better. "To every media outlet who sought to discredit me by publishing THAT... Continue Reading →

My wish for you

As I write this, I waiting for a friend I have known for over twenty years to have a baby. My own child and the inspiration for this column is asleep next to me. My friends' older children are asleep in the spare room. I am still one of those people who are amazed, even though I have been through the process,... Continue Reading →

Let her memory be a revolution

I woke up on Saturday September 19 to my normal routine, morning coffee, trying to find the one sports sock that always goes missing in the wash before the kid has to play and of course checking the news. Mostly these days it’s ensuring that America hasn’t gone to war with someone or spontaneously combusted. Honestly after the last few months, none of those things... Continue Reading →

Well, what do I do now?

Suddenly stuck in your house with no formal education training and having to teach your child. OMG …Me too. At the start of the coronavirus story being on the news who would have thought this is where we would be. Millions of people unemployed, the places you would normally go to socialise and relax are... Continue Reading →

Small steps 4 Hannah

(written in March 2020) Small steps 4 Hannah Tuesday February 18, started like any other day. We all did our normal week day routine. We got kids ready for school, got ready for work and went on about our day. During the course of the day however. There was a news story, the details of... Continue Reading →

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